
On Friday, November 2, Susan and Nicola headed to Hennepin County District court for Susan's second parent adoption hearing. Judge Pamela Alexander signed the adoption order, meaning that Susan has now legally become Felix's mom. Felix charmed everyone in the courtroom, especially when he raised his right hand along with his moms during the swearing in.
Even though we don't need the state to tell us that we are both Felix's moms, the ceremony did mean something and it guarantees a lot of legal rights for Susan and Felix that most families take for granted.
Minnesota is one of only 24 states that allow same sex second parent adoption. While we are delighted and relieved that Susan was able to legally adopt Felix, it is maddening that in more than half of the United States families like ours can't secure some of the most basic rights in order to protect their relationships with their children.

Felix plays with Judge Alexander's robes

Felix and Nicola celebrate at a post adoption party